Theologians have long debated the best way to try to describe the will of God. There are several different terms that have been used, but some of them contain theological errors or are misleading. The Bible speaks of God's will in two primary categories that may best be described as God's "will of decree" and His "will of desire". Deut. 29:29 refers to both and shows the basic difference: "The secret things [God's will of decree] belong to the Lord our God, but those things which are revealed [God's will of desire] belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law."
Finding God's Will
When most Christians talk about finding God's will for their lives, they are usually trying to figure out God's will of decree before they make a big decision. One theologian describes the popular view this way: "Conventional understanding of God's will defines it as a specific pathway we should follow into the future. God knows what this pathway is, and he has laid it out for us to follow. Our responsibility is to discover this pathway—God's plan for our lives. We must discover which of the many pathways we could follow is the one we should follow, the one God has planned for us. If and when we make the right choice, we will receive his favor, fulfill our divine destiny and succeed in life.... If we choose rightly, we will experience his blessing and achieve success and happiness. If we choose wrongly, we may lose our way, miss God's will for our lives, and remain lost forever in an incomprehensible maze." Sadly, that very common view is entirely unbiblical and destroys lives and souls. Here are a few of the worst side-effects.
The idea of needing to discover God's hidden will has the tragic effect of making people resent God and distrust His fatherly providence. If God has the map for your life and is hiding it from you and will punish you if you don't find it, then what kind of sick god is that? That's a false god that the Devil wants to pass off on you; that's not your heavenly Father. As theologian Bruce Waltke argues, the modern idea of finding God's will is actually a pagan notion that has nothing to do with biblical Christianity.
As result, many well-meaning Christians who are thus deceived end up paralyzed with fear and are crippled by anxiety. They desperately want to please God, but they don't know how. They sincerely want to do God's will, which is why they're afraid to do anything that might take them "out of God's will". This means that many Christians are rendered completely ineffective for the service of God because they have been tricked into desperately seeking something that can't be found.
Unfortunately, some people use the will of God as an excuse for their laziness. In a show of fake humility, some people sit comfortably on their blessed assurance while waiting oh so patiently for God to make His perfect will perfectly clear. Ironically, this misconception about God's will allows them to feel more highly spiritual the less they do. Even worse, some people make up some way to justify their sin (violating God's revealed will of decree) by some supposed sign from God that led them toward the choice they made.
It is not God's will for you to try to find His will for your life. God is not hiding anything from you that you need to know in order to do His will. Study what God has plainly revealed in Scripture, and ask God to shape your desires to align with His. Ask God for wisdom and for His providential guidance. Seek out wise counsel from mature Christians who can help you avoid pitfalls. Commit your way to the Lord, and trust Him to order your steps according to His perfect plan (Ps. 37:5).
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